My Life As A Waitress.

Yellow! How are you doing? I hope you’re doing perfectly great! :D I’m pretty fine at the moment.

Well, today I have a lil special thing to “serve” for  yahhh!

Actually, few days back I’ve been working as a part-time waitress near my house, Bidor Station Kopitiam. Come at Bidor Station Kopitiam, they have good food/drinks and the place is kind of unique on its own. It’s just around Cheras area. So if you’re near, COME!

Hahaa. Yes, that’s why I've been so busy that I kinda neglected my babies (YOU)!  I’ve been working there since 2009, it was long- school break. It was kinda “off and on” relationship. Because whenever I'm done with school, I would do a part-time for long school breaks.

However, as years gone by people are starting to be more rude. I know things change, everything change but rude?  That’s not change, rude is rude. Yes, RUDE. Whether its Malay,Chinese, Indian, they’re RUDE. Back in the days when I worked for the first time EVER, people would greet each other with smiles or laughter, etc. But nowadays, those values are not available anymore-gone! Customers that I have to deal with are customers with sour  face. I can’t understand why would they do that “face” at us. When I said us, it means my colleagues and I . Is it because we are waitress/waiter? Is it being a waiter/waitress wrong in anyway? If you said yes, I'm sorry YOU'RE WRONG!

Just imagine……........

Obviously, self service sucks!-right?  You have to queue/line up like you used to when you're in primary/secondary school. So does having a waiter/waitress make things a whole lot easier? YES! When the food/drinks is ready and since you ordered way too much food and you realize you only have two hands, does the waiter part relevant to be there? YES!

I'm not trying to make ya’ll being lazy in some way. I never intended that way. And not every human being is like that, but most of them are. Eventhough you pay for the extra charges, doesn't mean you have the right to be rude. So try to respect each other better, no matter who THEY are and who YOU are.
RUDE IS NOT COOL. RESPECT IS!
You’ll have my RESPECT if you’re not RUDE!

I apologize if I hurt anyone, mentally or emotionally.

xoxo

3R:Respect.Relax.Respond.

Hello pumpkins! I hope ya'll are doing great!
It feels like I havent updated my blog like forevaaaaah!! Hahaa.

Wokay! Today, I have an interesting thing to tell ya'll!
3R* IS BACK! I can't believe it!
*TV program in Malaysia
*3R stands for Respect,Relax,Respond.

Right now, they are looking for the new/next 3R host*! So, if you ladies are interested, do visit www.3r.com.my now for more information!
*Projek 3R

I apologise if I hurt anyone's feeling, mentally or emotionally.

XOXO  ;)

Saudagar Tegar.

Hello beauties. How are you guys doing? I hope you're doing perfectly fine!

Today, I'll be "promoting" a little bit about 'Saudagar Tegar'. Saudagar Tegar is a small online company which sells Baby Bean Bag and Baju Kurung Moden (Mini).

It's called Baby Bean Bag because of it's shape, if I'm not mistaken. It's suitable for anyone, it's comfy and cute! So, here are some of the pictures!

Here's the link for the comfy Baby Bean Bag - https://www.facebook.com/pages/Baby-Bean-Bag-Malaysia/300121750120271 .

Okay, NEXT!

Yes, Bulan Ramadhan and Hari Raya Aidilfitri are coming. So, I'm pretty sure, especially you ladies are thinking what to wear on Hari Raya Aidilfitri, right? No worries! Saudagar Tegar also sells Baju Kurung Moden but it's in a MINI version. Here are the pictures!

Here is the link  for this beautiful Baju Kurung Mini Moden-https://www.facebook.com/SaudagarTegar?fref=ts

That's all I guess for today! If you have any interest in knowing/buying the product, you can go to the website/blog-aidenmuslimcollection.blogspot.com/‎ .

I apologize if I offend anyone, mentally or emotionally. Take care guys!

xoxo

Happy Mother's Day.

Christina Aguilera-Turn To You

One of my Mother's Day music playlist.

DEAR IBUNDA,

I wish want to wish you Happy Mother's Day! Thank you for being there for me through my highs and lows. Thank you for taking care for me. Thank you for standing up for me even when I'm wrong. Thank you for EVERYTHING. You're 'The Ibunda'. I love you, Ibu. Thank you for everything!

Oh, hello there! Peeking I see, huh?? :P

Yes, finally Mother's Day is here! :D

I want to take this opportunity to say HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all mothers in the WORLD.

Biggest presents you can give your mum are spend your TIME (money? that's bonus!), love your mum every second, make memories with her, cherish every memories, not just for today but everyday. 

Last but not least, be grateful and appreciate her.

Maybe I'm not the greatest kid on earth but I have the greatest Ibu in the whole wide world! 

You're My Number 1!
p/s : I Love You, Ibunda.

XOXO

General Election.

Hello peeps! How are you doing? I hope you're doing fine
 I'm just going to make this a quick one. (SORRY)

So as you all Malaysians know, 5/May/2013 was the General Election/Pilihan Raya Umum 13. However, I'm too young to vote but I had a chance to go and experience the "atmosphere". Hahaa. I accompanied my mum! Everyone were smiling and said "Hello" to each other. There was no havoc at all. Just peace! It was awesome.

To the ones who won, congratulations and step-up your game. To the ones who loose, keep your head up and there's always a next time.

That's pretty much it. I'm sorry I can't write something more than this. This is never meant to offend anyone, mentally or emotionally.

xoxo

Be Heard: Cervical Cancer.

Hello blooming flowers! I hope y'all doing great! :D

Few days back, my sister and I went to a clinic because my sister was sick. Alhamdulillah, she's doing fine. (YAY! :D) And the reason why I choose to write about 'Cervical Cancer' today, is because I saw a small article about it at the clinic. Yes, it makes me worried, not only for myself but I'm worried for my 'ibunda' (MOM), sisters and the ones who are suffering because of this cancer.

For y'all who didn't know,

January is The Cervical Cancer Awareness Month!

Before we start, Cervical Cancer is the more treatable when it's diagnosed and treated early. Prevention is always the best than treatment. :)

Shall we begin, ladies? (DRUM ROLL)

So, here are the main risks (FOR ME) that causes a Cervical Cancer ;

1. High Sexual Activity.

Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) is the main risk factor Cervical Cancer. For *women, who had sexual intercourse with multiple sexual partners, has the highest risk of getting this cancer.  On the other hand, women who are not sexually active has lower risk in of developing the cancer. Sexual activity with multiple partners increases the likelihood of many *other sexually transmitted infections (STI).

*at the age of 17 years old or younger, or both

*chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis 

2. Smoking.

Smoking can lead to higher risk for *precancerous changes in the cervix and for progression to invasive Cervical Cancer especially for women infected with HPV.

*dysplasia

3. Family History

Women have higher risk of chemical if they have a first degree *relative who has/had cervical cancer.

*mother, sister

Other risks are ;

- Socio-economic and Ethnic Factors

- Use of Contraceptives

- Having Many Children

- Immunosuppression

- Diethylstilbestrol (DES)

Wait!!! Look what I have for y'all :D
Here are "How to reduce the risk of Cervical Cancer ;
1. Get regular Pap Smear.
2. Follow up on abnormal Pap Smear.
3. Limit the amount of sexual partners.
4.  Wait? What? Sexually active?? Use a *condom. ;)
5. Quit smoking and avoid secondhand smoke.
6. Get HPV vaccine.
*well, protection is important. right?

Get Yours Now, GIRLS!

That's all for today, I guess. So,what are you waiting for? Get yourself check, ladies!

If you do, I wish you all the best. :) This is never meant to hurt anyone, emotionally or mentally. If I do, I apologize. If y'all want to "dig" more about Cervical Cancer info, y'all can go to ;

* cancer.about.com

* www.umm.edu

* www.cdc.gov.

Thanks for reading! xoxo

Fashion : Ready For A Change?

Hello fashionistas!

First of all, I'm NOT a beauty/fashion guru. I'm just a lady who love to share my opinions with y'all.

So today, it has something to do with FASHION  but most of it is about CONFIDENCE. Actually I don't know how to start but I'll try ;)

Personally, I would love to "give a shot" on crazy/sexy/nice outfits, instead of just plain t's and jeans. I love dresses, skirts, short pants, anything that looks elegant and chic! However, the fact that I'm always being judge/criticize inside and outside my house, sometimes it makes me feel sick and uncomfortable with my own skin. Instead of taking a step forward, I'll always take a step back and feels like I'm not good enough if I wear something else. It will be a lie if I didn't dreamt/wished for a white, fair skin, before.

But for now, I prefer to cut the crap and accept the fact! No matter how many products-even if I bleach myself, I'll still have the color I'm in now -brown. So, I always seem to care less about what people have to say about me because I know myself better and I'm so much better (YOU TOO) and just flaunt it! Be brave, be bold and the most important thing is be grateful. However, I'll always make sure that I have certain limitations.

Even though, I'm still in my "cocoon" of jeans and t's, I'm really looking forward to try something new. If I do, I'll definitely post the pics! Before I end up this topic, what about you? If you're on the same page, feel free to share with me, lovelies.

This is never meant to hurt anyone's feeling, mentally or physically. If I do, I apologize.

p/s : 'Beauty' comes from outside but 'True Beauty' comes from within.